Monday, April 21, 2008
Inlove ka ba talaga? Mahal mo nga ba siya talaga?
Friday, April 18, 2008
Top, Bottom, or Versatile?
What do these labels mean?
Top -The penetrating partner during anal sex.
Bottom -Term used to describe the partner who is penetrated during anal sex.
Versatile -A versatile gay man enjoys a shared dominance in gay relationships. They are comfortable being the dominant partner, passive partner or both.
During sex, versatile men enjoy being either a top or bottom.
Versatile Top -A versatile top is comfortable with a shared dominance in gay relationships; however sexually, enjoy being a top more than a bottom.
Versatile Bottom -A versatile bottom is comfortable with a shared dominance in gay relationships; however sexually, enjoy being a bottom more than a top.
How do you know if a person is a top, bottom, or versatile?
Despite the many stereotypes and generalizations about gay sex, there is only one easy way to find out your potential partner’s sexual role- ask him (of course, at the appropriate time)! Keep in mind, however, that some men prefer not to label themselves.
Why are you being asked to label yourself?
Unlike the traditional generalizations of sexual compatibility in straight relationships, when two men are involved it is difficult to determine sexual compatibility before meeting. For instance, if a guy prefers to bottom (or be penetrated) during anal sex, then he will more than likely want a guy that prefers to top.
One again, there are no absolutes when it comes to each individuals sexual preferences. Some men use these descriptors as a mere guide, while others see them as a necessary piece of information before sex or dating.
How to ask your partner about his sexual preference.
Most men in chat rooms or message boards choose to explicitly ask if their prospect is top, bottom or versatile. Years ago (before gay men were able to find other men online), non-verbal signals were used to disclose their preferences. For example, if a band, earring, tattoo or other jewelry was on the right side, it signified a bottom. If they were on the left, then the guy was a top. Gay men also wore colors to signify certain sexual practices. Wearing these colors on the left or right would alert their partners if they were a top or bottom respectively. These non-verbal signs are rarely used today due to the internet and the ability for gay men to communicate and meet in other non-threatening environments.
Sa Aking Pag-iisa
Kung minsan, kapag nag-iisa ako, ang dami-daming mga bagay-bagay na bigla nalang talagang pumapasok sa isip ko. Lalo na kapag jume-jebs. Marahil narin sa kawalang magawa kundi ang umupo sa inidoro.
Ano ba sa Tagalog?
Bakit ang toothbrush kapag tinagalog sepilyo, eh pano naman kaya ang toothpaste? Ang Typewriter makinilya sa tagalog, ah ano naman kaya sa calculator? Ang bicycle, bisekleta. Eh ang tricycle?
Sa mga pampublikong sasakyan:
Ang mga pampasaherong jeep. Halimbawa nalang ang biyaheng mula Pasay Rotoda hanggang Alabang ang ruta, aba eh nagka-cutting trip! Pasaway na mga driver. Minsan nakakainis pa yung mga pasaherong deadma sa pag-abot ng bawad. Kon-todo kunwari hindi narinig, pakiramdaman pa sila kung sino ang mag-aabot. Kulang nalang sumigaw ka ng makiki-abot po ng bayad ko. Pero kapag sila yung magpapa-abot ng bayad di pa marunong magpasalamat. Sa bus naman, may upuan na tatluhan diba? Malamang dun ka uupo sa may pwesto pa. Ganito naman ang gawain ng mga nakakainis na pasahero. Sa tatluhang upuan, kapag isa palang ang nakaupo malamang duon ka uupo. Iisipin mo na uurong ang pasahero. Eh pano kung hindi umurong? Tumayo at hinayaan kang umupo sa tabi ng bintana. No choice uupo ka. Aba badtrip at mauuna ka pa plang bumaba sa kanya. Sa MRT o sa LRT naman. Ang mga pasaway na pasahero haharang sa malapit sa pintuan. Kaasar diba?
Sa mga Fastfood chain:
Badtrip ang mga costumer na pagdating palang sa counter saka palang mag-iisip ng oorderin. Tumatagal tuloy ang pila. Sa haba ng pila at sa bagal ng mga crew eh pwede ka nang mag-isip ng oorderin mo bakit ba naman kung kelan nasa counter na saka palang mag-iisip. Pasaway na kostumer!
Sabi ni Vilma Santos:
Ang babae, kapag namatayan ng asawa, ang tawag sa kanila "biyuda" o "balo". Ang lalaki, kapag namatayan ng asawa, ang tawag sa kanila "biyudo". Ang anak, kapag namatayan ng mga magulang ang tawag sa kanila "ulila". Eha ang magulang kaya? ano ang tawag sa kanila kapag namatayan ng anak.
Ang walang kamatayang "Okay lang":
Saan ba nangaling ang sagot na "okay lang" kapag nagtatanong ka. Halimbawa, ang mataba at sobrang taba mong kaibigan ang nagtanong sa’yo. "Mataba ba ako?" Ang isasagot mo, "Okay lang." Eh "Oo" o "hindi" lang naman ang sagot. Ang baduy kung manamit mong kaibigan ang nagtanong sayo, "Bagay ba? Hindi ba baduy?". Ang isasagot mo uli "Okay lang!". Hay… Oo o hindi lang!
Ang mga Pilipino talaga!!! Pasaway!!!
Formula 17
Apoy
Sige na, sige na! Payag na’ko. Tutal hindi ka Tang ina! Hindi ako ganon kagago! Hindi ako makikihati sayo! Hindi
niya kayang
iwanan kasi mahal ka parin niya at hindi ka rin naman niya
bibitawan dahil
ginagawa kaniyang fall back kapag hindi kami okay… Payag na
akong dalawa tayo sa
kanya. Tatlong araw siya sa’yo, tatlong araw siya
sa’kin. Oh kaya naman, sa’yo
siya sa umaga akin siya sa gabi. Kahit na luge
ako dahil anytime na gusto mo ng
sex pwedeng pwede mo siyang puntahan sa
bahay nila.
ko ugali ang
makipag-agawan. Kung gusto mo siya, kung mahal mo siya. Sayo na
si’ya.
Nagkakilala kami sa simpleng textmate muna. Text-text, tawag-tawag sa cellphone. Hanggang sa naging madalas ang pag-uusap namin sa telepono. Tumatagal ng ilang oras ang pag-uusap namin hanggang sa lumalim ang pagkakaunawaan. Sa madaling salita, nabuo ang relasyon namin. Mas lalong naging madalas ang pag-uusap namin sa telepono. Isang buwan na ang relasyon namin ng magpasya akong makipagkita sa kanya. Naging maganda naman ang kinalabasan ng unang pagkikita naming iyon. Sa isang motel namin tanagpuan ang aming mga sarili. Unang gabi namin sa pagbisita sa kamunduhan. Sa labin-dalawang oras na pagsasama namin sa apat na sulok ng kwartong iyon. Lalong lumalim ang pag-iibigan. Maganda ang takbo ng relasyon namin. Madaling naaayos ang simpleng hindi pagkakaunawaan. Hindi pinalilipas ang isang araw ng hindi naaayos ang munting pagtatalo. Maganda, masaya, puno ng kulay at pag-ibig.
Ang pagpapatuloy:
Sa pagdaan ng mga araw, walang di pagkakaunawaan ang hindi namin inaaayos. Pinupunuan ang pagkukulang ng bawa isa. Naging bukas sa bawat saloobin, naging matapat sa bawat salita. Napaka-gandang simula at pagpapatuloy ng nabuong pagkakaintindihan.
Graduating siya noon sa kursong Business Administration(Marketing) sa isang State University sa Maynila samantalang ako ay nagtatrabaho sa isang Engineering Firm. Kapwa parehong abala ngunit hindi nawalan ng oras sa isa’t-isa. Sinisikap kong magkaroon ng sapat na oras para sa kanya. Isang beses sa isang Linggo ang pagkikita namin. Isang beses ngunit labindalawang oras na pagsasama sa isang di kalakihang kwarto ng langit. Ganoon ang naging takbo ng relasyon namin.
Ang simula ng paglalaro ng apoy:
Ang apoy. Ang apoy na nagsisilbing liwanag sa kadiliman. Maganda, kaakit-akit na liwanag. Ngunit sa kabila niyo’y hindi maaaring hawakan o ang madampian. Mainit, masakit, nakaka-paso. Ngunit sa taglay nitong ganda ay hindi maiwasan ang makipag-laro dito. Masarap kung mapapatatiling hindi ka madadampian. Mainit! Nakakapaso! Masakit!
Sa unang pagkakataon:
Nagdesisyon akong mag-aral uli. Civil Engineering ang kinuha kong kurso. Sa may kalayuang paaralan mula sa amin ngunit hamak na napakalapit sa bahay nila.
“Hon, gusto kong mag-aral uli. Sa malapit na University dyan sa inyo nalang.”
“Eh paano na tayo kung mag-aaral ka uli. Magkaroon ka pa kaya ng time para sa’kin?
“Oo naman! Kung nung nagtratrabaho ako eh nagagawa ko, ngayon pa kaya na mag-aaral ako at malapit pa sa bahay n’yo.”
Enrollment! Natuloy ang balak kong magbalik paaralan.
“Pahiram ng phone mo. Palit muna tayo ng phone. Idaan mo nalang dito sa bahay bago ka umuwi, pagkatapos mo dyan sa school.”
“Sige, idadaan ko nalang dyan mamaya. Pero kukunin ko rin bukas ha. Daanan ko uli dyan.”
“Sige, kita nalang tayo mamaya.”
Idinaan ko ang phone ko sa bahay nila at umuwi na.
7:00pm.
“Hon, dito na’ko sa bahay. Ingatan mo yung phone ko ha.”
“Matutulog na ako Hon, masama ang pakiramdam ko. Napagalitan pa ako ng nanay ko.”
“Sige magpahinga kana, Bukas dadaan uli ako sa inyo para kunin yung phone ko.”
Hindi ko na siya inistorbo. Masama kasi ang pakiramdam niya. Pinagpahinga ko na. Alas siyete pa lamang ng gabi noon. Kinabukasan, maaga akong nagising para bumalik sa school dahil hindi ko pa natapos ang pagpapaenroll. Dumaan muna ako sandali sa kanila para kunin nga ang cellphone ko. Malinis ang inbox, outbox, at maging ang sent items na folder ng telepono. Nang tignan ko ang Communication Logs… sinuri at tinignang maigi.
“Hon, anong oras ka natulog kagabi?”
“Maaga pa.. 7pm nagpaalam ako sayo na matutulog na ako dahil masama ang pakiramdam ko.”
“Ah ganon ba?”
Alam kong nagsisinungaling siya dahil mula ng 7pm hanggang kinabukasan ng 6am ay kumpletong nakatala sa Communication Logs ng cellphone ko ang lahat ng incoming, outgoing text messages at maging ang calls. Walang playa. Sa madaling salita, hindi siya natulog ng maaga. Magdamag siyang nakikipagtext at nakikipag-usap sa iba’t-ibang tao. Hindi ko n asana papansinin at palalakihin pero hindi ako nakap-pigil sa konprontahin siya.
“Bakit kailangan mong magsinungaling sa’kin?”
“Ano ba ‘yang sinasabi mo? Paranoid ka nanaman dyan?”
“Sabihin mo sa’kin na mula 7pm hanggang ngayon eh hindi ka pa natutulog. Hindi pwedeng magsinungaling ang Logs ditto sa telepono ko. Oo nga, nabura mo lahat ng inbox, outbox, sent items at ang mga received at dialed numbers, pero nakalimutan mong ireset ang Communication Logs. Ano? Magsisinungaling ka pa ba?”
“Hon sorry… Wala lang naman iyon.. Mga kaibigan ko lang iyon..”
“Oo nga… Sige! Mga kaibigan mo nga lang sila… My point is…. Nagsinungaling ka!”
Dahil sa mahal ko siya, pinalampas ko ang bagay na iyon at hindi na pinalaki pa. Ang importante nasa akin sya. Pero hindi ko rin maiwasan ang hindi usisain ang mga taong iyon. Kinuha ko ang mga numbers at isa-isang kinaibigan (textmate nga). Mabait naman ang iba. Gumawa ako ng samut-saring dahilan at palusot kung sakaling magtanong sila kung saan ko nakuha ang mga cellphone numbers nila. May mga taong madali kong nakagaan ng loob at sa kanila ko sinabi ang tunay na dahilan at kung paanong nakuha ko ang mga numbers nila.
Classy Things To Say When Stressed
"Okay, okay! I take it back. Unfuck You!!!"
"You say I’m a bitch like it’s a bad thing?"
"How many times do I have to flush before you go away??"
"Well this day was a total waste of make-up."
"Well aren’t we a bloody ray of sunshine?"
"Don’t bother me. I’m living happily ever after."
"Do I look like a fucking people person?!"
"This isn’t an office. It’s HELL with fluorescent lighting."
"I started out with nothing, still have most of it left."
"I pretend to work, they pretend to pay me."
"YOU!!! Off my planet!!!"
"Therapy is expensive. Popping bubble plastic is cheap. You choose."
"Practice random acts of intelligence and senseless acts of self-control."
"Errors have been made. Others will be blamed."
"And your cry-baby, whiny-assed opinion would be…?"
"I’m not crazy. I’ve been in a very bad mood for 30 years."
"Sarcasm is just one more service I offer."
"Whatever kind of look you were going for, you missed."
"Do they ever shut up on your planet?"
"I’m not your type. I’m not inflatable."
"Stress is when you wake up screaming and you realize you haven’t gone to sleep yet."
"Back off!!! You’re standing in my aura."
"Don’t worry, I forgot your name too."
"I just want revenge. Is that so wrong??"
"I work 45 hours a week to be this poor."
"Nice perfume. Must you marinate in it?"
"Not all men are annoying. Some are dead."
"Wait… I’m trying to imagine you with a personality."
"Chaos, panic and disorder… my work here is done."
"Ambivalent? Well, yes and no."
"You look like shit. Is that the style now?"
"Earth is FULL. Go HOME!"
"Aw, did I step on your poor little bitty ego?"
"I’m not tense, just terribly, terribly alert."
"A hard-on doesn’t count as personal growth."
"You are depriving some village of an idiot."
"If assholes could fly, this place would be an airport."
Brokeback Mountain
Director Ang Lee’s movie, from a fine and faithful screenplay by Larry McMurtry and Diana Ossana, has already been proclaimed a landmark, a watershed in mainstream movies, the first gay love story with A-list Hollywood stars. But the reason it feels like a breakthrough is that Lee has made it for the right reasons: he recognizes a heartbreaking love story when he sees one. Maybe because he’s not an American, the Taiwanese-born director is neither afraid of the material nor impressed with himself for "daring" to make it. There’s neither coyness nor self-importance in "Brokeback Mountain"–just close, compassionate observation, deeply committed perform-ances, a bone-deep feeling for hardscrabble Western lives. Few films have captured so acutely the desolation of frustrated, repressed passion.
"Brokeback Mountain" is in no rush. Its emotional impact builds slowly, its rhythms in tune with the countryside–the rugged grandeur of the mountains; the arid, bleak vistas of backwater Western towns, where the rooms seem as cramped as the sky is vast. Lee’s movie isn’t a Western, but it has much to say about the mindscape of the American West, where the myth of rugged individualism works only for those who don’t break the rules, and love can suffocate in the wide-open spaces.
The Da Vinci Code
Together, Langdon and Neveu embark on a high-paced, danger-around-every-corner adventure to discover the dead curator’s prior involvement in a secret society known as the Priory of Sion. The society’s historical members include the famous artist, Leonardo da Vinci — thus the name of the Dan Brown novel and Ron Howard film.
The book begins with the murder of Jacques Sauniere, the curator of the Louvre Museum in Paris. The curator, a Grand Master of the Priory of Sion, an ancient secret society, wrote a cryptic message prior to his death. French police summon experts to decipher this message — Robert Langdon, a Harvard professor, and cryptographer Sophie Neveu, the estranged granddaughter of the murdered curator. What they find is a dangerous secret linking the curator to evidence that disproves the deity of Jesus Christ and could threaten the existence of the church. They discover that artists and thinkers have planted clues in numerous places for centuries. Langdon and Neveu race through Paris and England attempting to solve this centuries-old mystery while being chased by the police.
Da Vinci Code Truth –
Jesus was married to Mary Magdalene and her womb was the Holy Grail. Jesus and Mary Magdalene had offspring together. The truth about Christ and Mary Magdalene has been kept alive by a secret society named the Priory of Sion that was led by great minds like Da Vinci.
The gospels are not historically accurate. The Roman Catholic Church instigated a cover-up of some 80 gospel accounts that shed new light on the identity of Jesus.
The early church did not believe that Jesus was divine. Instead, they “voted” for His divinity at the council of Nicea in the fourth century.
Da Vinci Code Truth –
Have these extra “gospels” provided new information on the identity of Jesus — information that contradicts the four inspired gospels? Yes, but not for the reasons that Brown proposes. He claims that these extra writings defined Jesus as merely a man and not divine. That is simply not true.
As honest seekers study the question, "Is the Bible true?" and consider its prophetic record, the historical evidence, the archaeological evidence, and learn of its authorship, they will discover that the Bible is inspired and can be trusted.
The similarity and concise understanding of Jesus’ identity as the Son of God and salvation are written quite clearly by Matthew, Mark, Luke, Peter, John, James, and Paul in the first century. The Pastoral Epistles (1 and 2 Timothy and Titus) are incredibly clear about what constitutes true salvation and sound doctrine.
The Devils Wears Prada
Who’s in It: Meryl Streep, Anne Hathaway, Stanley Tucci, Emily Blunt, Adrian Grenier
The Basics: Boring and badly dressed Hathaway goes to work for the most awesome boss ever and gets lots of cool outfits in the process. Then she whines about how it’s corroding her soul. Well, guess what? You work for the biggest fashion magazine in the world in a job that other people would kill to have. Shut up and get back to work.
What’s the Deal? Streep, as the boss, eats this movie for breakfast and doesn’t even have to raise her voice. In fact, if it weren’t for the typical, barfy, "everyone has to learn a lesson" plot stuff that gets stuck in at halftime, it would be funny from start to finish, thanks to her.
Ladies Must Behave: That second half is about how women have to make choices. They can be successful and powerful and feared, or they can have love and family and friends. But not both. Streep’s boss character becomes a cautionary tale. And that’s the moral. You think anyone wrings their hands over Donald Trump like this? In fact, do you think anyone has the nerve to tell Anna Wintour (the Vogue editor in chief on whom Streep’s character is based) that she’s wasted her life on things that don’t really matter? I’d like to be there when that happens, to see Wintour shred ‘em.
Cool Moment: When Streep tells Hathaway the fashion history of the ugly sweater she’s wearing. It’s a cold slap in the face to people who dismiss clothes as something less than art. People who wear Dockers. You know who you are.
Why does Love really hurts?
Love does not hurt. Physical and/or emotional abuse are not a part of love. Love is not manipulative, it should not be used to get others to do what you want. You should never give in to demands based on the, "You would do it if you loved me!" tactic. Love is an intense feeling of caring for another person. It can take many different forms (romantic, friendly, familial) but it is always about caring. Although it is true that a big part of love is putting another person’s happiness ahead of your own this never includes compromising your values or being untrue to yourself. If somebody asks you to do something that you don’t want to do in order to "prove" your love they do not love you the way you might think they do. When you love another person you don’t ask them to sacrifice a part of themselves in the name of that love. It is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not physical attraction. It is possible to feel romantic love for more than one person at a given time. Just think, if it is possible for you to love both of your parents at the same time why would it be impossible to feel romantic love for two people at once? Don’t beat yourself up emotionally if you find yourself in this unhappy situation. But be sure to remain single and be open and honest with all parties about your feelings and confusion. Sex is NOT love. Love is NOT sex. Sex can be a part of romantic love but it is never mandatory. Romantic love can (and often does) fade. When it goes there is not always a reason. When somebody falls out of love with you it does not reflect upon your value as a person or your desirability. Love should make you feel happy, secure and appreciated
Scorpion Characteristics
Because you have an excellent memory, but are easily excitable, you think and act with great speed. This can cause you to ascend to the heights of achievement or turn like the scorpion and destroy your own happiness. So slow down and take your time! .
The ruling plant of Scorpio, the eighth house of the zodiac, is Mars, named for the god of war. Because of this you have deep emotion and tremendous passion beneath the calm surface of your personality and enjoy a good argument over who gets the corner hydrant. You want to have your paw in everything that goes on, yet at times you can be frustratingly independent and can make everyone around you feel You are vain with a magnetic personality; your hypnotic charm draws all those who come in contract with you and you love the fuss that everyone makes. But let no one forget that you have very strong likes and dislikes. .
Your endurance is really remarkable. Your strength should, however, be guarded or you will over extend yourself just to prove that you can. .
But your Peter Pan qualities will never let you completely grow up and you will be charmingly youthful even in later years. You like to hide your toys and possession where no one, including you can find them again even though you have an excellent memory. .
You can be ruthless like the eagle and will go through any ordeal for your loved ones. Watch your paws carefully, stay away from drafts and never indulge in rich foods.
Particular and skeptical regarding finding a mate, you would do well to be with one born between June 22 and July 22 and will be quite pleased if this "arrangement" was made for you. .
This will be an excellent year for you and you may play a prominent role in a patriotic event. Your lucky number will be 8. You love flowers, but fall is your favorite time of the year and you will delight in roaming the woods and enjoying the smells. Your favorite color is dark red.
Traits And Facts Of The Scorpio Personality
The Scorpio is one of the most prominent of all the zodiac signs. It represents one of the strongest, intelligent signs. The Scorpio personality is usually powerfully intense, strong, and persistent, and the traits of the Scorpio varies with both positive and negative characteristics. Overall, Scorpio’s are generally powerful, independent, strong, an probing.
The Scorpio personality is a sign that has been studied for years. The persistence of these studies have concluded on several traits the Scorpio possesses. Among these traits are several positive qualities, which make this sign a powerful one in the world of astrology.
The Scorpio, which is considered the water sign is symbolized by the scorpion. Scorpio’s are strong, deep, mysterious, complex, and also secretive. They love to unveil the mysteries of life, and are usually very emotional, often keeping their own deepest mysteries and trials to themselves. Their emotions are often hidden or disguised by strength and motivation.
One trait of the Scorpio personality is that of an achiever, striving to succeed, and do well in life. They are often an influence of leadership and play important roles in the lives of people surrounding them. Scorpio’s are determined and often very passionate, causing them to be exciting and magnetic to other people. In other words, they are extremely likeable for their intuitive traits.
Scorpios are considered the most profound and intense characters in the zodiac. They may appear to calm and self controlling, but in reality they are actually very emotional individuals. The Scorpio personality is unlike any astrologically designed persona. Although it is extremely powerful, without the persistency of their own self discipline, they are more susceptible to pain. And when there is pain present, Scorpio’s feel it like no other because they are so deep.
Scorpio’s are often very powerful in the lives of the people they know and love. Their traits can be used in extremely positive manors or the exact opposite. Their strong emotionalism can often be responsible for acts that are only beneficial to themselves. In other words, at times the Scorpio personality may show severe signs of selfishness. The immense intensity that is shared by Scorpio’s can either be a good thing or a flaw, but can definitely prove to be an asset when times are hard.
Often showing an extreme sense of calmness and stability, Scorpio’s are infamous for holding their emotions within. Thus, they appear calm and stable, but could really be ready to burst at any moment. This trait can often lead to extreme actions and impulsiveness, which might be categorized as a negative trait.
Scorpio’s are considered to be gifted. Their high striving minds are often incapable of accepting failure. Thus, Scorpio’s are often more likely to succeed in their goals and dreams. There persistence in achieving their goals is considered to be one of the many positive traits of the Scorpio personality. They are often intrigued with finding a higher, deeper meaning for life.
Scorpio’s prove to be excellent friends. They are loyal and committed to their companions and are often vital roles in the lives of the one’s who love them. They are also extremely passionate lovers, but tend to be more complicated in the world of romance. The typical Scorpio believes in commitment and even marriage, usually only involving themselves with one partner at a time. Although, the Scorpio personality is one that will cherish the true aspects of love, they are more susceptible to receiving a broken heart because of their emotional traits.
Scorpio! About Your Sign…
Scorpios are the most intense, profound, powerful characters in the zodiac. Even when they appear self-controlled and calm there is a seething intensity of emotional energy under the placid exterior. They are like the volcano not far under the surface of a calm sea, it may burst into eruption at any moment. But those of us who are particularly perceptive will be aware of the harnessed aggression, the immense forcefulness, magnetic intensity, and often strangely hypnotic personality under the tranquil, but watchful composure of Scorpio. In conventional social gatherings they are pleasant to be with, thoughtful in conversation, dignified, and reserved, yet affable and courteous; they sometimes possess penetrating eyes which make their shyer companions feel naked and defenseless before them.
In their everyday behavior they give the appearance of being withdrawn from the center of activity, yet those who know them will recognize the watchfulness that is part of their character. They need great self-discipline, because they are able to recognize the qualities in themselves that make them different from other humans, and to know their utterly conventional natures can be used for great good, or great evil. Their tenacity and willpower are immense, their depth of character and passionate conviction overwhelming, yet they are deeply sensitive and easily moved by their emotions. Their sensitivity, together with a propensity for extreme likes and dislikes make them easily hurt, quick to detect insult or injury to themselves (often when none is intended) and easily aroused to ferocious anger. This may express itself in such destructive speech or action that they make lifelong enemies by their outspokenness, for they find it difficult not to be overly critical of anything or anyone to whom they take a dislike.
They can harness their abundant energy constructively, tempering their self-confidence with shrewdness and their ambition with magnanimity toward others provided they like them. They relate to fellow workers only as leaders and can be blunt to those they dislike to the point of cruelty. In fact they are not above expressing vindictiveness in deliberate cruelty. They are too demanding, too unforgiving of faults in others, perhaps because they are not aware of the shortcomings within themselves, and extravagantly express their self-disgust in unreasonable resentment against their fellows. They do, however, make excellent friends, provided that their companions do nothing to impugn the honor of which Scorpios are very jealous. Part of the negative side of the Scorpio nature is a tendency to discard friends once they cease to be useful, but the decent native is aware of, and fights this tendency.
They are fortunate in that their strong reasoning powers are tempered with imagination and intuition, and these gifts, together with critical perception and analytical capacity, can enable the Scorpions to penetrate to profundities beyond the average. They have a better chance of becoming geniuses than the natives of any other sign.But charismatic "twice-born" characters such as they can sink into the extremes of depravity if they take the wrong path, and the intensity of their nature exaggerates their harmful tendencies into vices far greater than the normal.
Rebelliousness against all conventions, political extremism to the point where hatred of the Establishment makes them utterly unscrupulous terrorists. Brooding resentment, aggressive and sadistic brutality, total arrogance, morbid jealousy, extreme volatility of temperament, these are some of their vices. At the other extreme is the procrastinator, the man or woman who is capable of so much that they do nothing and become indolent and self-indulgent, requiring extravagant praise and flattery from those whom they make their cronies.
Being so gifted, they can find fulfillment in many employments. Their inner intensity can result in the ice-cold self-control and detachment of the surgeon, the concentration of the research scientist, and the heroism of the soldier. Any profession in which analysis, investigation, research, dealing with practicalities, and the solving of mysteries are relevant, can appeal to them. So police and detective work, espionage and counterespionage, the law, physics or psychology may attract them, and they can become masters of the written and spoken word. They may be most persuasive orators and find fulfillment as diplomats or preachers and, if they make the Church their profession, their inner intensity can express itself in the spiritual fervor of the mystic or the thaumaturgy.
Scorpio is the symbol of sex and Scorpios are passionate lovers, the most sensually energetic of all the signs. For them, union with the beloved is a sacrament, an "outward and visible sign of an inward and spiritual grace.". Their overriding urge in loving is to use their power to penetrate beyond themselves and to lose themselves sexually in their partners in an almost mystical ecstasy, thus discovering the meaning of that union which is greater than individuality, and is a marriage of the spirit as well as of flesh. They are thus capable of the greatest heights of passionate transport, but debauchery and perversion are always dangers, and Scorpios can become sadistic monsters of sensuality and eroticism. Their feelings are so intense that even when their love is of the highest, and most idealistic kind, they are nevertheless frequently protagonists in tragic, even violent romances, "star-crossed lovers".